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HELP

This topic is something special to me. To say honestly, I would love to help others.

There are many ways we can help to others. The following are some of them,

I know many of us know these ways which are mentioned below, but I felt to remind us once.


Helping Through Words:

Words can make a person feel sad and at the same time it can heal the pain of a person. Nowadays we are busy with our works and not even able to observe what other person is suffering in his/her life. 


Let’s say you see a colleague who is crying/feeling sad in your office who you don’t know before. So, what we do basically? We ignore. But you can actually go to that person and ask why he/she is feeling bad. If the person liked to share it with you then help them with the positive words which can change their mood if the topic is not related to money/other materialistic thing and something that can be solved just by talking.


There are many problems that can be solved just by talking positively. Try to motivate others through your words who are stuck in their life by means of failing in exams, failing in love, breakup, personal issues, who thought to commit suicide and many other. Emotional support is the best thing to bring a person out of depression or change his/her mood.



Helping Through Work:

Helping through work can be applicable anywhere. We help our friends to do assignments. If something happens to one of our friends, we help them in doing his/her works. Like wise we can help colleagues in workspace. This and all ok. But the thing most of us neglect is helping our parents in home. I accept that we have our own works to get done. But we can do the basic things like doing our bed, Keeping our workspace/room clean and neat and many other. These are the very small things right. So, from the next time try to complete your things by your own. 


Helping Through Humanity:

There are many ways we can help others who are struggling in their lives through our humanity. We can donate some money to the people on streets and to beggars. During the family functions/weddings if the food is left, we can donate that food to orphanages or to the people living on footpaths. We can help old people to cross the road. 


Another best way to help through humanity is to not to bargain with the roadside stall people. Basically, those people do not sell their things/food to become rich. They sell it to fill their stomachs. With the money they earn from their service or by selling those things, they use it for paying school/college fee to their children, to feed them and to survive in this world. And the people who are in that roadside stalls/shops are old people.


The harsh truth is we don’t bargain in malls or stores. We buy branded clothes, utensils, and many more without bargaining. But when it comes to roadside stalls or small shops, we do bargain. Please don’t do that. Show some humanity towards them.


When you go to restaurant, we can get parcel of our leftover food and donate it to the people who are struggling to get a single meal for a day. There are a lot more ways we can help others through humanity. It’s on us to take that step or not.


Conclusion: 

When you help anyone just forget about it. Don’t expect anything in return. If you are expecting that “I helped this person, so next time he/she has to help me in return” then it’s not help. There is a word called “KARMA” which means whatever you do, it will come back to you. If you do good to the others, then good will come to you. If you do bad to others, then bad will come to you.


We came to this world to live together. We don’t carry the assets that we earn when we die. If you have more wealth donate few of it to the people in need. If you have more food, then donate some to the people who are hungry. Not only you can help others by money and food, but you can also help others by many ways as mentioned above. Be kind to others. 


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