Spill Some Truth

  Comparison Comparison can kill your confidence and goals. On the other side it can make you achieve your goals.  Yes, there is both positive and negative side for comparison. The positive side comes from gratitude and the negative side comes from comparison alone.  Let’s discuss on both positive side and negative side of comparison. Comparison (Negative Side): Most of us become depressed or lose hope mainly due to comparison. We compare ourselves with others who are successful. We compare our current financial status with someone else’s financial status. Not only us, even our parents compare us to our siblings, cousins and neighbor’s children and make us feel we are worth nothing. It makes us feel like we are useless thus lose hope towards our goals, dreams and even in life.  Gratitude (Positive Side): We make mistake by comparing our present status/situation which includes money, job, car/bike, home, and many more with someone else who is having all those things. ...

“Stage Fear” Many of us has this stage fear. We will discuss the reasons for stage fear and how to overcome stage fear. But before that I will take example from my own life experiences. As said in the previous blog, I have the enthusiasm to participate in every competition irrespective of whether I will win or not. So, from my childhood I have participated in seminars/elocution competitions. When I participated for the first time in a seminar, I just gave my introduction and after starting the main theme of the seminar I forgot the speech that I had prepared and stopped. And then said thank you and left the dais(stage). It repeated many times when I participated in seminars. Gradually, I self-analyzed the reasons for why I was unable to give a seminar properly. After rectifying those mistakes gradually, there is no looking back again. From my 11 th  standard I gave almost every seminar/speech successfully.   This is the main thing I suggest you to keep it in your mind for the ...

  I will give a real-life example for the best understanding of “opportunity”. When I was studying in my school I participated in many competitions, events etc. I have participated in every seminar, quiz, essay writing competition, games etc. But I have never won in any of those competitions. But I never stopped participating. I remembered that when I was in my 8 th  standard, I was asked to give a speech on Jawaharlal Nehru on 14 th  November on the occasion of Children’s Day. I have prepared well for the speech and on that day when I was giving the speech, I forgot my whole script which I had prepared due to stage fear. I stopped in the middle of the speech in front of 900 students and 20+ staff members. Even after that I never stopped participating in those seminars/speech competitions. At the end of my school days, I  left with the participation certificates only. My school days were over. I have entered my 11 th  standard (Intermediate 1 st  year). I g...

" Fans " The word that we hear very frequently when the topic of movies, actors, actresses, directors, singers, producers, and so on come up. I would like to discuss and question some of the topics related to movies, actors/actresses, celebrities, and fans.   DemiGod: I was a boy who always used to call my favorite actor (don’t want to mention the name) as a demigod. But I was ended it on my 12 th standard. But why I had ended that? The question that came to my mind was “Why I have to call him demigod?” “What does he do for me?” He is just an actor which is his profession just like other professions. Then “Why I have to treat him as deity?” That’s it. I stopped assuming and calling him as DemiGod. Admiring or praising an actor/actress/celebrity/movie is far more ok but treating them as deity is absolutely foolishness.   BIRTHDAY PARTIES/CELEBRATIONS: The one thing that I’m really feel good about is neither I went to celebrations of actor/actress birthday celebrated by the fa...